Renee has been 'giving me faces' whenever I chided her for... many matters, not keeping her toy/stuff before taking another set/thing out to play with, not drinking enough water, etc...
Over the few months, I'm tired from the strain and I finally had a talk again with her yesterday :
Mommy : "darling, come here, I want to speak to you"
Renee : (still standing there, not looking at me) "....."
Mommy : "Renee, can you please come over here. Look at me when I'm talking to you?"
Renee : (finally sat herself down on the stool but still kept quiet even though she glanced up at me)
Mommy :"darling why are you so naughty lately? Why don't you listen to me?"Renee : "....."(still not speaking)
Mommy : "baby, it's ok, just tell me what is it, why are you behaving like that? why are you treating mommy like that when mommy loves you so much?"
Renee : "but why you always scold me"
Mommy : "I don't want to scold you too, but u've been very naughty. Like those times u didn't respond to my beckoning when we're out, not keeping your toys, throwing tanthrums when I wake you up from naps...". "I would like to shiork shiork you too, but if you always throw tanthrums like that, you made it very hard for me to do that 'cos I get very angry. So darling, can you please, be a good girl so I can sayang you more?"
Renee : "Ok"And she did, well, at least for these 2 days, :) - I hope it'll be like this for a looonnng looonnng time... For the good behaviour, we've also been doing quite abit of 'artwork' and here're some(more to come over the next few days, lolz) :
paper scattered around
And then it's Renee @ work, with her artwork produce, hahaha :
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